Pastor Enoch Adeboye has sparked widespread reactions after sharing his views on the qualities he considers essential when choosing a spouse.

Adeboye shares marriage advice during sermon

Speaking during a sermon, the General Overseer of the Redeemed Christian Church of God advised men to prioritise practical attributes such as cooking ability and hospitality when selecting a partner.

He suggested that these traits are key to building a stable home and sustaining family life.

Focus on character, intelligence, and hospitality

According to Adeboye, beyond physical attraction, qualities like intelligence, good character, and the ability to manage the home effectively should guide marital decisions.

He referenced biblical teachings to support his position, stressing that these values remain important in relationships.

“If she can’t cook, you’re heading for trouble”

In his remarks, he said, “Don’t marry a girl who cannot cook… If she can’t cook, even if a prophet says this is your wife, say thank you, keep her. Because if she can’t cook, if she can’t be hospitable, you’re heading for trouble.”

He added that the Bible outlines expectations for a wife, including being intelligent and hospitable.

Mixed reactions trail his comments

The statement has since triggered debate across social media, with opinions sharply divided.

While some supported his emphasis on traditional roles and domestic skills, others argued that modern relationships should be based on shared responsibilities and evolving gender expectations.

The discussion reflects ongoing conversations around marriage, culture, and changing social values in Nigeria.

“Don’t marry a girl who cannot cook” — Pastor Adeboye advises pic.twitter.com/QOC1NmZnAu

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