The General Overseer of the Redeemed Christian Church of God, Pastor Enoch Adeboye, has advised women to be wary of men who use excessive flattery, warning that such behaviour can be deceptive.
Adeboye shares personal experience
Speaking during a sermon, the cleric recounted an encounter from his younger days when he used charming words to impress a woman.
He said the incident only made sense to him after he became born again.
“I was a bad boy before I got born again… there was this very beautiful lady and I was making some plans,” he said.
Unexpected reaction from woman
Adeboye explained that he complimented the woman repeatedly, praising her physical features in poetic terms.
However, he said the woman suddenly turned and ran, leaving him confused at the time.
“All of a sudden she did something strange. She turned round and began to run. I said what’s wrong with you?” he recalled.
Warning against excessive flattery
Reflecting on the experience, the cleric said he later understood the reaction, linking it to biblical guidance.
He warned that constant praise focused on physical appearance should be seen as a red flag.
“The Bible says flee… when a brother comes and begins to talk about your body… run,” he said.
Mixed reactions trail comment
His remarks have since sparked conversations online, with varying opinions on relationships, intentions, and personal boundaries.
“Runaway from any man whose tongues to sweet”
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