Tag: Religious leaders

  • “Run From Men With Sweet Tongues” — Adeboye Warns Women Over Flattery

    The General Overseer of the Redeemed Christian Church of God, Pastor Enoch Adeboye, has advised women to be wary of men who use excessive flattery, warning that such behaviour can be deceptive.

    Adeboye shares personal experience

    Speaking during a sermon, the cleric recounted an encounter from his younger days when he used charming words to impress a woman.

    He said the incident only made sense to him after he became born again.

    “I was a bad boy before I got born again… there was this very beautiful lady and I was making some plans,” he said.

    Unexpected reaction from woman

    Adeboye explained that he complimented the woman repeatedly, praising her physical features in poetic terms.

    However, he said the woman suddenly turned and ran, leaving him confused at the time.

    “All of a sudden she did something strange. She turned round and began to run. I said what’s wrong with you?” he recalled.

    Warning against excessive flattery

    Reflecting on the experience, the cleric said he later understood the reaction, linking it to biblical guidance.

    He warned that constant praise focused on physical appearance should be seen as a red flag.

    “The Bible says flee… when a brother comes and begins to talk about your body… run,” he said.

    Mixed reactions trail comment

    His remarks have since sparked conversations online, with varying opinions on relationships, intentions, and personal boundaries.

  • “Don’t Marry a Woman Who Can’t Cook” — Adeboye Sparks Debate Over Marriage Advice

    Pastor Enoch Adeboye has sparked widespread reactions after sharing his views on the qualities he considers essential when choosing a spouse.

    Adeboye shares marriage advice during sermon

    Speaking during a sermon, the General Overseer of the Redeemed Christian Church of God advised men to prioritise practical attributes such as cooking ability and hospitality when selecting a partner.

    He suggested that these traits are key to building a stable home and sustaining family life.

    Focus on character, intelligence, and hospitality

    According to Adeboye, beyond physical attraction, qualities like intelligence, good character, and the ability to manage the home effectively should guide marital decisions.

    He referenced biblical teachings to support his position, stressing that these values remain important in relationships.

    “If she can’t cook, you’re heading for trouble”

    In his remarks, he said, “Don’t marry a girl who cannot cook… If she can’t cook, even if a prophet says this is your wife, say thank you, keep her. Because if she can’t cook, if she can’t be hospitable, you’re heading for trouble.”

    He added that the Bible outlines expectations for a wife, including being intelligent and hospitable.

    Mixed reactions trail his comments

    The statement has since triggered debate across social media, with opinions sharply divided.

    While some supported his emphasis on traditional roles and domestic skills, others argued that modern relationships should be based on shared responsibilities and evolving gender expectations.

    The discussion reflects ongoing conversations around marriage, culture, and changing social values in Nigeria.

  • Bisi Adewale Warns Against Long ‘Omugwo’ Trips Abroad, Says Couples Must Travel Together

    Marriage counselor and cleric, Bisi Adewale, has cautioned against the growing trend of women travelling abroad for extended childcare support, popularly known as omugwo.

    He expressed concern about the impact of long separations on families, especially elderly couples.

    ‘It Affects Marital Balance’

    Speaking during a recent teaching session, Adewale said the practice often leaves elderly men alone while their wives remain abroad for years.

    He described the situation as unhealthy for emotional connection and marital stability.

    “Another thing I hate is for a woman to escape to Canada to do omugwo for three years… that’s how you’ll see a 75-year-old man going around to buy boli,” he said.

    Calls for Joint Travel Decisions

    The cleric advised couples to take joint decisions when it comes to travelling abroad for family support roles.

    According to him, marriage should remain a partnership regardless of circumstances.

    “If you’re going to Canada, we’re going together… I’ll get a hotel,” he added.

    Concerns Over Family Separation

    Adewale noted that prolonged separation can weaken companionship, especially in older marriages where emotional bonding is crucial.

    He suggested that families should explore alternatives that keep couples together while fulfilling childcare responsibilities.

    Wider Conversation on Migration and Family Life

    His comments add to ongoing discussions in Nigeria about how migration and long-distance family arrangements are reshaping traditional family structures.

    The debate around omugwo abroad continues to generate mixed reactions, especially among younger families navigating global relocation.

     

     

  • Adeboye Shares “Unusual” Testimony of Woman Giving Birth to Twins After Infertility

    General Overseer of the Redeemed Christian Church of God, Enoch Adeboye, has shared a testimony of a woman who reportedly gave birth to twins after years of infertility.

    He recounted the story during a church programme, describing how the woman had earlier been told she could not conceive.

    Account of “Unusual” Pregnancy

    According to Adeboye, the woman attended a programme where a prophecy was given that she would have twins. He said she later became pregnant and delivered the babies through a Caesarean section in London.

    He added that the case was described as unusual by the attending doctor.

    “One of my daughters was barren for several years… God spoke that she’ll give birth to twins. Not long after that, she got pregnant and gave birth through CS in London,” Adeboye said.

    He further claimed that the doctor involved noted it was the first time in his decades of practice to witness such a case.

    Reactions Trail Testimony

    The testimony has sparked reactions among members and online observers, with many expressing surprise at the account while others questioned the medical claim.

    The development has added to ongoing conversations around faith, miracles, and medical science within religious communities.

  • Adeboye Shares Son’s Journey from Restaurant Worker to Owner in the US

    Enoch Adeboye, the General Overseer of the Redeemed Christian Church of God, has shared a personal story highlighting his son’s rise to success in the United States.

    Humble beginnings in the US

    The cleric revealed that upon relocating to the US, his son initially worked at a restaurant before eventually opening his own. Adeboye recounted how he prayed over the business, which then flourished.

    From employee to employer

    In a twist of fate, his son later employed the man who had once been his boss as the restaurant’s manager.

    “I have a son in the USA. When he got there, he started working at a restaurant, and after some time, he got a restaurant of his own. Then he told me to come bless the place for him. I went there and prayed for him, and he began to prosper. He needed a manager, and the man who was his boss is the man he later employed,” Adeboye said.

    The story has drawn attention online, with many praising the example of resilience, faith, and determination.

     

  • Bandits Attack Kogi Community, Abduct Pastors, Families in Night Raid

    Suspected bandits have attacked Odo-Eri community in Yagba West LGA of Kogi State, abducting several residents including clergymen and their families in a late-night raid that has triggered fresh security concerns.

    Night attack sparks panic

    Local sources said the attackers stormed the community around 10 p.m. on Wednesday, firing gunshots to scare residents before carrying out the abductions.

    The victims reportedly include pastors, their wives, children, aides, and other residents, though the exact number remains unclear.

    “We cannot confirm the exact number or identities of those abducted at this time. Many residents fled for safety during the chaos,” a source said.

    Clergymen among victims

    Information circulating within the community indicates that a pastor from the Christ Apostolic Church and another from the Redeemed Christian Church of God, alongside their families, were among those taken.

    Residents said the gunfire threw the area into panic, forcing many to flee their homes by Thursday morning.

    Sources added that the attackers escaped through Abewo Road, linking Okunran and Okoloke communities toward the Kwara State axis.

    Senator reacts, urges action

    Senator Sunday Karimi, representing Kogi West, condemned the attack and warned against a return to worsening insecurity in the area.

    “Unknown gunmen reportedly invaded Odo-Eri community and abducted a pastor of the Redeemed Christian Church of God alongside his wife, children, and several other residents,” he said.

    He described the incident as a desperate act by criminal elements under pressure and expressed confidence that those responsible would be apprehended.

    Karimi also urged security agencies to intensify efforts to rescue the victims and called on residents to remain vigilant and share credible information.

    Police yet to respond

    Efforts to reach the Kogi State Police Command spokesperson, ASP Saliu Oyiza Afusat, were unsuccessful as calls and messages were not answered at the time of filing this report.

    The latest incident adds to growing concerns over insecurity, with communities continuing to face attacks from armed groups, a development dominating latest Nigerian news and breaking news Nigeria today.

     

  • “It Is Foolish to Think You Own Nigeria” — Oyedepo Speaks Out, Sparks Reactions

    Founder of Living Faith Church Worldwide, Bishop David Oyedepo, has spoken out in a sermon that is now generating nationwide reactions after making strong remarks on national ownership and religious influence in Nigeria.

    The statement, which surfaced online on Tuesday, quickly gained traction across social media, with many Nigerians debating its tone and implications in the country’s already sensitive religious and political climate.

    What Oyedepo said

    Speaking during the sermon, Oyedepo dismissed the idea that any individual or group could claim control over Nigeria, warning against what he described as attempts to dominate the country along religious lines.

    “It is foolish for anybody to think they own Nigeria, who are you? You want to islamise Nigeria? You’re too late,” he said, in a remark that immediately drew mixed reactions online.

    He went further to stress his stance, adding, “Except Christ has left heaven, don’t try it cos if you do, it’ll boomerang. No one in Nigeria has a stronger stake than I do.”

    Reactions trail comment

    The comments have since triggered widespread debate, with supporters backing his right to express personal conviction while critics caution against statements that could deepen existing divisions in a multi-religious society.

    Some Nigerians argued that such remarks reflect long-standing concerns around religion and governance, while others warned that public figures should be mindful of the broader impact of their words.

    Wider context

    Observers note that conversations around religion and national identity often resurface during politically sensitive periods, especially as elections approach and public discourse intensifies.

    The latest comment adds to a growing list of high-profile interventions shaping discussions around unity, inclusion, and the future direction of the country.

  • “Don’t Kill to Rule” — Pastor Paul Enenche Sends Warning to Leaders Ahead of 2027 Elections

    The Senior Pastor of Dunamis International Gospel Centre, Dr Paul Enenche, has issued a strong warning to political leaders, urging them to seek power only through the will of the people as Nigeria moves closer to the 2027 elections.

    His message

    Speaking during a sermon, Enenche stressed that leadership must be rooted in public acceptance, not force, manipulation, or financial inducement.

    He criticised politicians who push themselves into power despite being rejected by the people, describing such actions as shameful.

    “People say they don’t want you, yet you spend money to impose yourself on them. Is that not a shame? Somebody should lead because you are wanted,” he said.

    Warning against election malpractice

    The cleric cautioned against electoral malpractice, including vote-buying and rigging, insisting that leaders must not resort to violence to gain power.

    “They don’t want you. Clear out. Don’t contest at all. Don’t rig to lead. Don’t kill to come into power. Let them need you,” he added.

    Call to speak out

    Enenche also urged Nigerians and religious leaders not to remain silent in the face of injustice, warning that silence could be interpreted as support for wrongdoing.

    He encouraged citizens to speak boldly against poor leadership and hold those in power accountable.

    Growing political conversations

    His remarks come amid increasing conversations around leadership accountability and electoral integrity as political activities begin to build ahead of the 2027 general elections.

  • “Christianity in Nigeria Has No Fathers” — Rev. Omolehin Questions Church Leadership

    Rev. Isaac Omolehin has sparked fresh debate after declaring that Christianity in Nigeria lacks a unifying spiritual father, arguing that most leaders are tied to denominations rather than serving the broader Christian community.

    What he said

    Speaking in a viral clip, Omolehin said prominent clerics in the country operate largely within their own church structures, rather than as overarching spiritual figures.

    He referenced Pastor Enoch Adeboye and Bishop David Oyedepo, describing them as influential but limited to denominational leadership.

    “Christianity in Nigeria has no fathers… are these the fathers of Christianity in Nigeria? These are denominational leaders,” he said.

    Criticism of church culture

    Omolehin also criticised what he described as growing competition among church leaders, particularly around infrastructure and wealth.

    According to him, the focus on building massive auditoriums and acquiring material assets has shifted attention away from core spiritual responsibilities.

    “A father would be someone who looks after us all… not competing over who is building a one-mile auditorium while another tries to build two miles,” he added.

    Debate it has triggered

    His comments have since generated mixed reactions online, with some agreeing that the church needs more unified leadership, while others defended the role of established pastors.

    The remarks come amid ongoing conversations about the direction, influence, and accountability of religious leadership in Nigeria.

  • Catholic Priest Blasts Imam Over ₦2m Bounty on Pastor, Cites Deborah’s Killing

    A Catholic priest, Father Kelvin Ugwu, has reacted angrily after an Islamic cleric allegedly placed a ₦2 million bounty on a pastor accused of insulting Prophet Mohammed.

    Threat that sparked outrage

    The controversy followed viral videos in which the Imam was heard initially offering ₦1 million to anyone willing to behead the pastor, before later increasing the amount to ₦2 million.

    “I swear to God, I promise ₦1 million to whoever beheads this man. If the money is too small, go ahead, I will increase it,” the cleric said in the video.

    He reportedly doubled the bounty afterward and was said to have boasted about remaining free despite the threat.

    Priest reacts

    Reacting, Father Kelvin Ugwu condemned the development and questioned why such threats could be made publicly without immediate consequences.

    He linked the situation to the 2022 killing of Deborah Samuel, a student who was lynched by her classmates in Sokoto over alleged blasphemy.

    “It was Muslim students that killed Ms Deborah… they stoned her to death and burnt her body,” he said.

    Reference to Deborah case

    The priest recalled that suspects arrested in connection with Deborah’s killing were defended by dozens of lawyers in court, raising concerns about accountability.

    “At least 34 lawyers appeared in court to defend the suspects… the case has been forgotten and those arrested are walking free,” he added.

    Rising concerns

    He further criticised what he described as a pattern where threats linked to blasphemy go unchecked, pointing to the Imam’s alleged comments and continued freedom.

    “And now an Imam publicly places a bounty on a pastor and is still walking free… make this make sense,” he said.

    The incident has sparked debate online, with many Nigerians expressing concern over rising tensions and calls for stronger enforcement of laws against incitement and threats to life.