Lady Recounts how her Boyfriend infected her with HIV

A young lady with the handle @Zandie_v on Twitter recounts how her first boyfriend infected her with HIV.

The lady started the thread by narrating how she met her boyfriend who is 6 years older than her. she stated how she loved and trusted him but started hearing a rumor that he has 3 kids with different mothers. She said she didn’t believe it because of the kind of trust she has in him but later discovered the truth while going through his phone.

She said she confronted him but he denied it, he only opened up after she threatened to break up with him. She stated that she broke up with him but she went back to him because her life was nothing without him.

According to her story, she fell sick in 2016 and couldn’t work because of her swollen legs, after trying several means of medication she decided to see a dermatologist, who ran a test on her and discovered that she has contracted Tuberculosis. She also did an HIV test based on the advice of the doctor and the result came out positive.

She further said that she called her boyfriend to inform him of the development, receive support and tell him to get tested but The boyfriend, however, insulted her and accused her of sleeping around.

she broke up with the boyfriend and according to her story, has the problem of getting acquainted with any other man since the incident.

I am HIV positive!!!

2010 I dated a guy 6 years older than me, it was a long distance relationship but I still trusted him. The guy was working and I was doing my matric when we met. He was the first guy I had sex with and I was this honest gf. Problem is I trust too much.

— Zandie (@Zandie_V) April 19, 2021

As expected he lied straight to my face and I then threatened to breakup with him. By then he didn't have a choice but to tell me the whole story about the 3 kids. Yes we broke up after but I still went back to him cz at that time I thought my life was nothing without him.

— Zandie (@Zandie_V) April 19, 2021

In 2016 I became sick just at the beginning of the year. My legs were swollen and I couldn't walk. I went to different doctors but non of them new what was wrong with me. I drank both traditional and doctors medication but I still wasn't getting better.

— Zandie (@Zandie_V) April 19, 2021

As shocked as I was, i then called my then bf and told him about it. I expected him to support me, to get tested too cz he new how honest I was with him, He new that I only slept with him?. Anyway he did the opposite, he insulted me, accused me of sleeping around??

— Zandie (@Zandie_V) April 19, 2021

Still I told him I was better off without him. Ever since then, my love life changed for the worst. I thought opening up to a new guy before we even start dating was gonna make things easier. No it didn't for me cz most guys told me I am a poison and they can't be with me.??

— Zandie (@Zandie_V) April 19, 2021

Perhaps I wasn't meant to find love. People ask me why don't I have a child at this age, truth is, It takes 2 to make kids. Sometimes I wanna give up on life in general but I still remind myself that I have a family that loves and care for me❤️

— Zandie (@Zandie_V) April 19, 2021