Nollywood actor Zubby Michael has opened up about a personal decision that shaped his early journey in the film industry, revealing why he deliberately avoided romantic relationships.
The actor said the choice was driven by a need to stay focused during his struggling years in Asaba.
Why he kept his distance
Speaking candidly, Zubby explained that he feared emotional distractions could derail his progress at a critical stage of his career.
He noted that relationships often come with pressures that can affect mental focus, especially for someone trying to build a name in a competitive industry.
“I’ve been scared of women… it can destroy this thing,” he said, referring to his career path.
Focus over feelings in early years
According to him, his priority at the time was to establish himself and create stability before introducing any form of emotional commitment.
He recalled how fully immersing himself in his work helped him grow without distractions that might have slowed him down.
“Maybe if I had a girlfriend then, I might not be here,” he added.
“There’s time for everything”
Zubby stressed that his decision was not rooted in any negative view about women, describing them as “beautiful,” but rather about timing and discipline.
He said he believed relationships should come at the right phase of life, when one is more stable and ready to handle the responsibilities that come with them.
Now open to love
With a more established career and personal achievements, including owning a home, the actor said he is now in a better place to explore relationships.
“Now I can say okay, let’s see how it goes… there’s time for everything,” he said.
The revelation has sparked conversations online about career sacrifice, timing, and the balance between personal life and professional growth.
“Maybe had it been I have girlfriend I won’t make it in life because if she disturbs me mentally it can affect my work”
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