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  • Banky W Defends Cooking at Home, Says Marriage Roles Shouldn’t Follow Society

    Nigerian singer Banky W has opened up on how responsibilities are shared in his home with wife, Adesua Etomi-Wellington, saying their arrangement is based on personal preference rather than societal expectations.

    Banky W addresses viral cooking video

    Speaking on The Teju Babyface Show, the music star reacted to a viral clip of him cooking sausages, eggs, and bacon, which sparked debate about gender roles in marriage.

    He explained that while his wife can cook, it is not something she enjoys, unlike him.

    “My wife does not really cook, which she can cook very well, but it’s not her thing,” he said.

    ‘It works for us’ — singer explains

    Banky W said he genuinely enjoys cooking and sees nothing unusual about taking up that role at home.

    “I love cooking. I enjoy cooking and I love eating and she loves eating. It works for us,” he said.

    He added that some visitors are often surprised to see him in the kitchen, noting that such reactions reflect societal expectations rather than personal realities.

    Singer urges couples to avoid pressure

    The singer stressed that every relationship is different and should not be shaped by external opinions.

    “What works for you will be different from somebody else. Don’t live your life by somebody else’s expectations or rules,” he said.

    Mixed reactions trail comments

    His remarks have sparked varied reactions online, with some supporting his stance and others questioning the shift from traditional roles.

    Some users praised his perspective on partnership and understanding, while others argued that responsibilities in marriage should follow more conventional patterns.

    The conversation has since grown into a broader debate about gender roles, expectations, and evolving dynamics in modern relationships.

  • Banky W Faces Backlash After Revealing How Adesua Initially Rejected Him

    Nigerian singer and actor Banky W has come under criticism after opening up about his past relationship journey with his wife, Adesua Etomi, during a recent interview.

    Revelation from interview sparks reactions

    Speaking on The Teju Babyface Show, Banky W revealed that he initially stopped pursuing Adesua after several unsuccessful attempts to win her over.

    He said that although he believed she was the one for him, she did not feel the same way at the time, leading him to step back and focus on building a friendship instead.

    Faith and friendship shaped relationship

    According to the singer, he turned to his faith during that period and decided not to revisit the idea of a relationship unless Adesua came to the same conclusion on her own.

    He recalled that the turning point came during a phone conversation when she told him, “Banky, you know you’re my husband, right?”

    Mixed reactions trail personal disclosure

    The revelation has since triggered mixed reactions online, with many Nigerians questioning why such personal details were made public.

    Some social media users criticised the disclosure, arguing that aspects of their courtship should have remained private, while others saw it as a reflection of patience and faith.

    Comments on marriage dynamic add to debate

    In another part of the interview, Banky W mentioned that his wife is not particularly interested in cooking, a comment that further stirred reactions among listeners.

    The discussion has continued to generate debate around relationship privacy and the boundaries of public storytelling.