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“How i became unparent 24 hrs after giving birth to my twins”- Nigerian lady

Nigerian lady with Twitter handle@rebellekush, who is also known as Yellow-butterfly has revealed how she became a parent and became unparent after 24 hrs of giving birth to her twins

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"How i became unparent 24 hrs after giving birth to my twins"- Nigerian lady

Nigerian feminist with Twitter handle@rebellekush, who is also known as rebel baby and Yellow-butterfly has revealed how she became a parent and became unparent after 24 hrs of giving birth to her twins

The lady shared her story on her Twitter page of how she lost her cute lovely twins on July 4th 2021, a day after giving birth to them, she said her twin’s boys Morayo and Moroti Kushimo have gone to be with the Lord.

According to her, she was not actually expecting a miracle because her pregnancy was just 6 months (24weeks). she said her water broke at 21 weeks but pushed till 24 weeks.

Furthermore, she said I could at least give them a fighting chance. I was hospitalized for 3 weeks on complete bed rest. She disclosed how she fought so hard! The battle wasn’t just physical, it was mental, emotional, psychological and everyhow but I was willing

She wrote;

It’s weird how we became parents on July 4th 2021 and then unbecame parents a day after. My twins boys Morayo and Moroti Kushimo have gone to be with the Lord. At 24 weeks, what was I expecting right? A miracle of sorts.

My water broke at week 21 but I pushed till week 24, so I could at least give them a fighting chance. I was hospitalized for 3 weeks on complete bed rest. Subjected to calling for help to eat, to poop, to bath. I had to wear compression socks for those weeks.

I was prodded every 72 hrs for blood tests, just to make sure I wasn’t getting an infection that could ruin my life whilst fighting for my babies lives. I fought so hard! The battle wasn’t just physical, it was mental, emotional, psychological and everyhow but I was willing

If it meant my babies would get a chance to live. See, these were expensive babies. They were IVF conceived and everything was planned to the T. I would birth them in the Uk but I visited Nigeria and things changed in seconds. Nigeria killed my babies…

Neonatal care isn’t advanced here, even when we did everything to save them by moving to a hospital that claimed to have the facilities. My Moroti lasted one day in the incubator.

My babies were beautiful, long limbs, active and just full of life. I won’t mourn you, I’m glad I got to be your mummy even if it was just for one day. Rest In Peace, my little angels. Daddy and I love you.

We did this all the way with God, asking him for his direction, his grace, his wisdom and every step of the way, we checked what next. This has built our faith beyond when we started this journey. We are fully aware of God’s presence and his grace.

This journey without God? and trust me I would have lost my mind. I would tell the details about my hospital stay in a few days but today’s memories are for my boys. My beautiful, beautiful boys. Moroti and Morayo Kushimo born on 4th July 2021. Yellow heart

 

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